That's what girls answered to the question. Every single girl likes to be listened
to and complimented, brushed and over-brushed in the right way, at the right time, by the right person. Pay attention to her,
be honest, and speak from your heart. But don't overdo it.
It's like cooking and French cuisine. A pinch of salt is perfect. But too much
salt, and you ruin the whole dish.
Indirect Compliments
Very subtle at first.
- I like this color.
- You're right.
If she's preparing a dish: "Mmmm...
It smells good"
While eating "It's delicious" and ask question: "How did you do that?"
But never never speak about tits, legs, ass on a first approach. Too sexual.
And it would be perceived as a major intrusion. What you think is a compliment might be very well be perceived as an insult.
Especially with North American, and that's not what you want.
Direct Compliments
Excellent for first approach.
- I like your shirt. I like your skirt... I
like your earrings.
- I like your bracelet. Can I see it?
- I like
your bag... I love the sound of your voice.
More Sensual
- I like your hair.
- I like the way you dress.
Your hair looks so soft. Hmmm... you smell good.
It means more or less: I like you. I offer you this compliment as a proof of
my recognition. Let's be friends.
Anything sensual, nothing sexual or related to the body, unless you can defuse
it with humor. Otherwise it might be too direct.
There is no pretty woman who would turn down regular compliments and entertaining
company from a handsome guy.
Direct Body Compliments
- Nice legs!
Careful with it. We are entering the Danger Zone. It's like nitroglycerine
and can blow up your face any minute if you don't know how to use it. Many girls can take that as an insult. It's like saying:
"nice ass". Use it only when you know the girl and you perceived flirting signals. Never before. Because it means more or
less: "my hand would fit very well on your legs, and I'd like to..."
Girls usually don't like that, unless they like you already or your name is George
Clooney. But how can they like you if it's your first words and they don't even know you? Believe me, Guys, there are better
ways to give a killer first impression.
Moreover if a girl has nice legs, do you think she waited for you to notice it?
If you say it, you act as a beggar and you give away all your feelings. Seduction is like poker not a demolition site. You
don't want the girl to see you as the guys with helmets behind the fence where it's written "Under construction".
But once she brushed up against you, or you can touch her anytime, fine by me.
